Gone are the days when girls lurked behind closed doors and looked through windows to see their groom while their parents fixed the matrimony for them. It is the time of open communication and families also welcome the idea of their daughters meeting with prospective grooms either along with them or even separately so that the girls can meet and discuss the life – the marital life that they will embark on together if she chooses the guy.

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So, girls, you may have a lot of questions to ask a boy when you first meet him. Look through the below and check if you are on the same lines of thought –

1. The icebreaker questions will be to know about his interests and hobbies. You will obviously know his name and his educational background – but you can talk more about his interest in education or about any other skill he may have.

2. Girls may try to find out the spiritual, religious, or community beliefs that the boys may have. In a close-knit society of tradition and culture, it is not an understatement to say that our boys are still rooted in many such practices.

3. If you are a working woman, it would be good to check with the boy about how he feels about a career-oriented wife. You may want to understand specific expectations from you as a career-driven person.

4. Discussing career and expectations needn’t be limited to just you alone! It would be wise to ask him about his career aspirations? Where does he want to see himself in the next 3-5 years?

5. Discussing the responsibilities of a wife towards his parents will be a good idea. If you know his family background and setup, you may want to add more questions about finances or responsibilities in the family.

6. Similarly, check with the boy about how he feels about the responsibilities that you wish to fulfill towards your parents. You may wish to support them financially or be for their needs as moral support.

7. Girls can speak about the place where he is currently placed or is working from. You can understand if he wishes to move from there once, he is married or if staying in that city/state is a long-term ordeal.

Wedgate Matrimony is a leading matrimonial site and we offer matrimonial services for families in and around Delhi. With a good track record of successful arranged marriages, we are assisting several families to find suitable boys for their daughters.

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