Importance of Setting Boundaries in a Marriage

Boundaries are present everywhere in your life – be it family, siblings, office colleagues or friends. It is always important to create a boundary in every relation as its helps in better communication as well as generate respect and a sense of safety among each other. However, boundaries may vary in each relation and should be discussed between both the parties openly and honestly to avoid any miscommunication or hurt the feelings and sentiments of the other.

Lets Check some Healthy Boundaries that you can Practice in your Relationship –

Lets Check some Healthy Boundaries that you can Practice in your Relationship

  • Express your Thoughts and Feelings Honestly – Don’t just say “yes” because he or she expects you to say it. Be honest and express whats in your heart.
  • Stop Guessing Whats on your Partners Mind, instead Just Ask them – Stop the Guessing game, as you may be wrong and this might cause misunderstanding between both of you because of your lack of communication in asking him what exactly the matter is.
  • Don’t Shrug off From your Decisions– if your mood is low or you are not feeling yourself, don’t blame the mood because of some decisions from your partner. Instead try and reflect the actual reason why your mood is off.
  • Stop Blaming your Partner for your Emotions – Don’t blame your partner for how you feel. For example – instead of saying “Yours words have hurted me and spoilt my mood”, you can say, “This topic is not apt right now, as I feel Hurt with this conversation”.

In a relationship it is very important to feel safe and to make your partner also feel the same way. This is only possible when you know when and where to Start and Stop. So to keep your relationship pure and avoid all kinds of mis – communication, always discuss the clear boundaries with your partner and know when to draw the line.

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