Even though it is the other family’s daughter you bring to your house, the family background of that family matters a lot. The nature of the girl depends a lot on the kind of family she has. Also, your son will become a part of that family after marriage. So you must know the girl’s family well before marriage. When it comes to getting your son married no matrimonial service will speak of the family of the girl. All they will tell you is about the girl. It is then on you to know her family well.
Some Important Reasons why the Background of the Girl’s Family Matters in your Son’s Marriage is:
1) Nature of the Girl – the way a girl stays depends a lot on the values her family gives her. Say the girl belongs to a family where abusing elders is a common thing. So that is what she will learn and bring to your house. To make sure the girl is well behaved and good you should know the kind of family she belongs to.
2) Marriage is a Union of two Families – when you marry your son to a family, you keep relations with that family for your life. if there are reasons why you disapprove of a family you will never be able to keep good relations with them.
3) Your Family’s Future Depends on the Girl – it is said that the daughter-in-law is the one who takes care of the house. If she does not inculcate good values and bring goodness to the house, even the best of houses go for a toss.
4) Societal Status – when you announce the marriage of your son society asks you about the girl’s family a lot. You would always want to get your son married into a family of equals. Knowing the family background helps you choose the right kind of family for your son.
It so happened in certain situations that you love the girl but you don’t like the family at all. You cannot go forward with that marriage. You must approve of both the family and the girl you want to get your son married to. Checking the family background not just helps to make sure that you get to choose the right person for your child, but it also makes you mentally free about the kind of life he will have in the future.
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